If you’ve just been through a breakup, you’re probably wondering, ‘Can I get my ex boyfriend back?” at least several times a day. Every relationship is different, so every break up is different. But there are some things you can do to help get him back. Go here now!
Be nice.
That might go without saying, but some people think nagging is the best way to get what they want. It’s not. If you nag, complain or act unpleasant, you’re just reminding him of things he wants to get away from. If you make things uncomfortable every time you see him, he’ll only want to see you less and less.
The last thing you want to do is drive him farther away. Be as pleasant as you can whenever you’re around him, unless the only way to do so is to be absolutely fake.
If you’re wondering, can I get my ex boy friend back by pretending to be this way or that way? Then you have to wonder why you want to be back with him anyway. You might be better off finding someone who doesn’t make you need to pretend.
If you can be pleasant, then whatever problems you had before the breakup probably don’t seem nearly as important now. You might find yourself wondering why you weren’t more pleasant when you were together.
You can’t change the past, but do remember that later when you’re back together. Point it out to him, and let him know that you did take him for granted. He probably took you for granted too, but don’t expect him to admit it now.
Some other things you might be thinking of trying could either be disastrous or they could work in your favor.
Can I get my ex boyfriend back if he has a girlfriend?
This is probably the hardest situation to overcome. Not only is it difficult to be alone with him if he has someone else, he’s focused on the new relationship. You’re part of the past, and not a priority. Being nice right now is crucial. You have to make him see how wonderful you are and how much he’s missing.
Can I get my ex boyfriend back by trickery?
No matter what kind of deception you’re thinking of, even if it doesn’t seem harmful—forget it now. Even the most innocent-seeming lie or exaggeration could backfire later. What’s the point of figuring out how to get him back only to lose him a little while later because he finds out about your dishonesty?
Can I get my ex boyfriend back by making him jealous?
It’s possible, but it could also backfire and make him think you’ve moved on. If you really feel the need to date, then do so if you need that to be happy.
But if you’re considering going out with someone just to make your ex jealous, that’s not really fair to your date, or you. Games like this usually don’t work. Be honest with yourself and others, and you stand a better chance of getting back together with your ex.
These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren't my original ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back. Go here now
T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
Monday, August 4, 2008
Making Up and Getting Your Ex to Return Your Calls!
There are 'magic' words that you can use to get your ex to return
your phone calls. I know, it sounds too good to be true and difficult
to believe, but there are certain words that will just about put a
spell on your ex and make them compelled to return your calls.
Neat huh?...Want to learn more? Go here now.
I am going to tell you about this breakthrough because this is one
of the biggest questions from many thousands people from all over
the world, that are trying to put their relationships back together.
So, I'm going to explain to you "The magic of making up" and getting
your ex to call. But first a warning. In the eBook the "Magic Of
Making Up" the strategy is completely laid out and if you use this
strategy alone, without an overall plan you may wreak your relation-
ship more than if they never returned your call. Get the strategy
now.
Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message
is wrong and hardly ever will work and much worse, it will put you
a pretty bad 'psychological' position.
These fall into 2 categories. The pleading category- Which is when
your message sounds like this. "John / Mary, please, please call me.
This is the 10th time I've tried to call you. I really need to talk
to you. Please call me back". Get the solution now!
Then there is the emergency type call which goes something like this.
"John / Mary, this is an emergency. You need to call me as soon as
you get this message."
So, can you see what's wrong with both of these approaches? I won't
go on and on... What you really need to use to gain an advantage is
to create curiosity and self interest. These are two of the most
powerful forces in the human mind. Learn more right here.
But wait, here's the big secret! When you combine the two, you have
a recipe that will work just like magic. So let's see just what you
can say that will work almost each and every time.
In a friendly manner try this. "Hi John / Mary. This is Cindy / Bob.
I just wanted to let you know I sure appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I would like to thank you in person."
Do you see how that uses both curiosity and self interest? John / Mary
won't be able to resist! He or she will think.. "What did I do?"
"What does she/he appreciate?" And he/she will feel good because it
is a very positive message.
Now... Before you make the call you should do the "Set Up".. And that
is trying to figure out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can
be any small thing...but it has to be very plausible. Learn how to
do the "Set Up" correctly right here!
This is IMPORTANT... You must have an underlying strategy OR, it
simply won't work! Okay? What I am telling you is... what you do
before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE
important, than getting them to return your call. Does that make
sense to you. Great! Now go out and DO IT. You'll be glad you did!
Get "The Magic Of Making Up"and save your relationship now!
Isn't it worth it? Sure it is! Just do it now!
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MsMimee is the seeker of life changing revelations. She has written
many articles that change lives for the better. Hopefully this is
one of them. Did you find the magic of making up to be helpful to
you? If so, for access to more information go here now.
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your phone calls. I know, it sounds too good to be true and difficult
to believe, but there are certain words that will just about put a
spell on your ex and make them compelled to return your calls.
Neat huh?...Want to learn more? Go here now.
I am going to tell you about this breakthrough because this is one
of the biggest questions from many thousands people from all over
the world, that are trying to put their relationships back together.
So, I'm going to explain to you "The magic of making up" and getting
your ex to call. But first a warning. In the eBook the "Magic Of
Making Up" the strategy is completely laid out and if you use this
strategy alone, without an overall plan you may wreak your relation-
ship more than if they never returned your call. Get the strategy
now.
Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message
is wrong and hardly ever will work and much worse, it will put you
a pretty bad 'psychological' position.
These fall into 2 categories. The pleading category- Which is when
your message sounds like this. "John / Mary, please, please call me.
This is the 10th time I've tried to call you. I really need to talk
to you. Please call me back". Get the solution now!
Then there is the emergency type call which goes something like this.
"John / Mary, this is an emergency. You need to call me as soon as
you get this message."
So, can you see what's wrong with both of these approaches? I won't
go on and on... What you really need to use to gain an advantage is
to create curiosity and self interest. These are two of the most
powerful forces in the human mind. Learn more right here.
But wait, here's the big secret! When you combine the two, you have
a recipe that will work just like magic. So let's see just what you
can say that will work almost each and every time.
In a friendly manner try this. "Hi John / Mary. This is Cindy / Bob.
I just wanted to let you know I sure appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I would like to thank you in person."
Do you see how that uses both curiosity and self interest? John / Mary
won't be able to resist! He or she will think.. "What did I do?"
"What does she/he appreciate?" And he/she will feel good because it
is a very positive message.
Now... Before you make the call you should do the "Set Up".. And that
is trying to figure out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can
be any small thing...but it has to be very plausible. Learn how to
do the "Set Up" correctly right here!
This is IMPORTANT... You must have an underlying strategy OR, it
simply won't work! Okay? What I am telling you is... what you do
before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE
important, than getting them to return your call. Does that make
sense to you. Great! Now go out and DO IT. You'll be glad you did!
Get "The Magic Of Making Up"and save your relationship now!
Isn't it worth it? Sure it is! Just do it now!
-------------------------------------------------------------------------
MsMimee is the seeker of life changing revelations. She has written
many articles that change lives for the better. Hopefully this is
one of them. Did you find the magic of making up to be helpful to
you? If so, for access to more information go here now.
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